How the World around You Shapes YourThoughts and Actions Surrounding environment plays the most important rolein forming your thoughts. The people around you, the daily situations you comeacross makes you the person who you are. The negative and positive thoughts andpeople around you influence your mood, action,and decisions. If you’re surrounded bynegative people then you start thinking in their direction.
For example- ifpeople around you are frustrating, shouting at each other then you will end upwith the same mood and frustration. If you want to be a creative person then it’simportant that you should surround yourself with creative things, art, andartistic people. You have to constantly look for creative advertisements, painting, and other things. Dull surroundingand dull people will not give you any creative ideas. Let’s take this in a healthyway. If you decide to lose weight and get a beach body for summer butyour refrigerator and your kitchen is full of chips, cola, cake, soda and otherunhealthy food then it gets very difficult for you to resist the temptation.
And you will end up eating one of those things and the workout you did at the gym is in vain. So if you working on a plan of losing weight then the first thing you should do is remove all thethings from your surrounding that can tempt to eat. Avoid meeting the peoplewho do not support you. Familyand friends also play the important rolein shaping your thoughts and actions.
If they don’t trust your decisions andplans then you lose trust in yourself, if they think that youcannot do it then you also start thinking that maybe seriously you can’t do it.On the other hands if your parents are supportive then you can achieve anythingyou want. The people in your office, the college also change your thoughts. If you are engaged with smartand intelligent people then you also ended up with smart decisions. They guideyou and help you to choose the rightthing. They teach you to handle difficultsituations, but if your company is some people who are lazy and don’t involvethemselves in activities then you will also become lazy and postpone thethings.
Make smart, hardworking andcommitted friends.Don’t afraid to opt for new opportunities becausesometimes your present work or job is not the one you wanted and it’s making you frustrated. So, don’t afraid totake any other opportunity.
If you want to be influenced by other great peoplethen you should also be influencing others. You can shape your own behavior and personality which can beinfluential for others.